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Blank slate

A blank page isn't empty, it's everything that hasn't happened yet. A short piece about treating that emptiness as innocence instead of pressure, and the courage it takes to step into the unknown.

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Dogs and cats

I brought two dogs into the relationship, my fiancée brought two cats. A piece about living with someone who's wired differently than you. And what dogs and cats have to teach us about people.

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The garden

A metaphor from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy about pulling weeds versus planting. And what Buddhism has to do with it.

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This is not for me

Four interviews into a process I'd already mentally quit, I finally said no. A short reflection on job searching in a tough market and knowing when to walk away.

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Hello World!

A first post is never just a hello. It's an act of commitment. Here's why I built this place and what I hope to put in it.